More than a greeting

It is easy to answer automatically when words are familiar. But this exchange asks something of God, as well as addressing the people in the room. The US bishops explain the greeting in terms of God’s Spirit enabling the congregation to carry out its calling. [1]

Why do we answer “And with your spirit”?

The response closely translates the Latin used in the Roman liturgy. The bishops connect its meaning to the gift of the Spirit received in ordination and to the minister’s service. It is not a comment about his mood or personality. [1]

An exchange the whole congregation shares

The General Instruction of the Roman Missal explains that the greeting and response express the Lord’s presence and the Church gathered together. The congregation has a speaking part in this prayer from the start. [2]

A way to pray the response more attentively

The next time you hear the greeting, pause inwardly before you answer. Think of the people around you: someone arriving tired, someone carrying grief, someone visiting for the first time. Let the familiar words draw your attention beyond yourself.

You might also remember the person leading the celebration. Whatever kind of week he has had, you can ask God to help him serve well. This is a personal intention you can bring to the exchange, not an additional spoken response.

You do not have to manufacture a feeling every time. Start by listening to the greeting and answering deliberately. Familiar prayers often become more meaningful when we give them a little more attention.

Sources & further reading

  1. USCCB: And With Your Spirit — translation, ordination, and the meaning of the response
  2. General Instruction of the Roman Missal, 50 — the greeting of the assembled people

This explainer describes the Roman Rite. The links above distinguish liturgical instructions from commentary and reflection. Suggest a correction.